There are two types of Online daters....passive and active.

If you upload your photo and complete your profile and then sit back and wait for someone to find you...then chances are you won't get nearly as many responses as you would like. 

To GET more responses consider this:

• Are you being proactive and sending out lots of messages?
• Are you asking open ended questions which will mean the other person will WANT to respond to you?
• Are you just cutting and pasting the same message over and over again? (Note: personal messages are appreciated much more)
• Have you visited the Chat Room or tried chatting to someone one on one with the Instant Communicator?

When you log onto our site, your profile will show up on our "Who's Online" list so the more time you spend on our site, the more chance you have of being contacted.

This is a SAFE way to contact someone, you aren't giving out personal information so don't be shy, sending an email doesn't automatically mean you have made a lifetime committment!  You are just showing that you might be interested and like what they have to say about themselves.